Hypochondriac jealousy
Well, that is the most boring kind of a jealousy. It is jealousy typical for people who constantly complain about this life, about their troubles and about everything it is possible to complain about. There is no thing and event in the world that can make them feel happy or overjoyed. These are people simply not provided with ability to be joy inborn. There is some kind of trouble occurred in the nature and so the gene or other genetic stuff that is in charge for happiness or at least smile was lost and so wasn't integrated in the person. That is the only reasonable explanation I can imagine for why they are so dull.
So, these are people who always complain and moan. And they always complain about themselves. If there is a kind of jealousy based on the lack of self-confidence the hypochondriac jealousy is the kind. These people always afraid of changes as they believe that things will never take a turn to better. They believe that the only possible turn the life may take is a turn to worth. They are always in charge as they always wait for someone to stab them on the back or to make them fall. They believe that there is no beauty in this world and no good.
It is a miracle that such people manage to find someone who will be in love with them as it takes enormous efforts to love such person. They should be grateful for heavens that there is a person to love them, though instead they are looking for some suspicious reasons the love of a person is based on. They just can't believe that it is possible for them to be loved by someone, especially by such beautify, smart, tender etc. person. They will never believe in it but they just can't take things as it is and so they trying to find a reason, they trying to explain the anomaly of their life.
As a result of such tryings they only ruin their happiness and the happiness of a person they are in love with. They ruin everything and at the end remain lonely. But, they never get frustrated with the loneliness as it is another thing to complain about. Simply terrible. There is no single advice to be given for people who are in love with hypochondriac jealousers. But, there is an advice to be given for those who are jealous. And that advice is – STOP COMPLAINING. You have to realise that you are good and smart enough for another person fall in love with you.
This kind of jealousy is the most groundless jealousy. There is no single real reason for this jealousy to appear. The base for this jealousy is an imagination of the one who is jealous. Though, it is not even the imagination but a confidence in fact that it is impossible for someone to love him or her. So, people ruin their lives themselves. They deprive themselves of opportunity to be happy, to love someone and to live happily with him or her for the rest of the life. Jealousy is a feeling of mass destruction and the hypochondriac jealousy is the mass destructive feeling that exists only in the mind of a person and has no grounds.