Jealousy - mass destruction feeling
Who is able to give a definition for jealousy feeling? I bet a number of people believe that they are. But, they are wrong if they believe that it is enough to check up the explanatory dictionary and will know for sure what jealousy feeling is. According to the explanatory dictionary jealousy is a state or quality of being jealous. How do you think is it enough to know a few words to realise what jealousy feeling is? As for me, this definition is not even close to the feeling we call as jealousy. Let's than check up for the dictionary what "jealous" means. So, according to the same explanatory dictionary a word "jealous" means suspicious or fearful of being displaced by a rival.
Once again, it is not even close to what the real "jealous" is. Not making a mountain of a molehill we may state that jealousy feeling is a feeling of mass destruction. There is no another feeling in the world able to cause damage greater than jealousy causes. It is one of the most wild and uncontrolled feelings. As jealousy comes into one's heart there is nothing that can be done anymore in order to heal a person from this feeling. Jealousy kills a person from the inside and damages his or her psychic, soul and heart. A heart poisoned with jealousy is an anxious and mistrustful heart.
Moreover, there is no place for other feelings in the heart poisoned with jealousy feeling. It is so huge and powerful that in some time, in some short time, it occupies the whole heart and soon there is no even the tiniest piece of a heart that is not poisoned with a jealousy. It is not only the heart that is usually poisoned with jealousy. Jealousy also poisons one's soul and mind. Once you felt jealousy in your heart your mind is also poisoned with it. There are no other thoughts will be in your mind except thoughts that are the brainchildren of your jealousy.
At first people are able to control it and even to get rid of it. But it is only the first stage and "get rid of" is usually just an illusion and soon jealousy touch repeats with double strength. As soon as it has happened the second stage begins. The second stage is a stage peculiar to "there is no way back anymore". Soon jealousy results in suspicions that disturb a mind of a person. Once there are too much of these suspicions a person is able to pronounce them for the one he or she is jealous for. It takes a couple of weeks for jealousy to turn into possession with suspicions. And than the terrible happens: hysterics, quarrels, offences and so on and so forth.
Jealousy feeling is a mass destruction feeling as it ruins lives not only of those who are jealous but only of those are jealoused. Though, it ruins not only lives but a number of other human values. Trust is the main feeling the relationships are based on and jealousy ruins the trust and ruins all possibilities for trust. And if there is no base there is no house. If there is no trust there are no relationships. Jealousy is able to ruin at once relations you were building for several months or years. It is an adder of the love, and it is the strongest thing among all those able to ruin love.