Jealous Man
Frankly speaking it is a disaster. There is nothing pore terrible, dangerous and uncontrolled than a jealous man. Actually, it is a jealous man the reason for jealousy to be considered as the mass destructive feeling. A man is sterner and more reserved in his feelings than a woman is. A man always keeps his feelings deep inside of his soul and heart and never shows these. As a result of these feelings-restrains jealousy is usually revealed once it reaches monumental size. While a man is able to control this feeling (and he is able doing it during the long period) jealousy remains unnoticed. But, till the time it is revealed it is a feeling of mass destruction.
It is common for man to be jealous; this phenomenon is typical for almost every man. This fact can easily be explained with the inborn peculiarities of a man's character. The men are created by nature as leaders and they have to control everything in their lives, otherwise they won't reach the harmony of their lives and souls. So, they are thirsty for control of everything and also for control of their life and a life of a woman they are in love with.
Jealousy of a man is peculiar for its cruelty and paranoiac nature. If a man is jealous he is helpless to do something in order to get rid of this feeling and to think about anything else except possible cheating of his woman. In most cases those worries have nothing to do with the reality and his woman is not able to cheat him. But, there is no power in the world strong enough to assure a man in this fact. He knows better what is possible and what is not. Jealousy of man may be resulted not only with a thirsty for control but also with the former experience.
It is possible that your man were hurt with betray and cheating and no he is not able to trust in a woman. Sure, you may say that it is his personal drama and you are not obliged to suffer from it. And you will be right if you say so. But, there are also women who love their husbands and boyfriends and want to do something in order to cure them of jealousy. It is a high time to disappoint them. The psychology is helpless for the problem of pathological jealousy. A number of efforts were applied in order to deal with this problem and according to the results of the efforts psychologist stated that there is no way to deal with it.
The only thing that may be of help is a divorce, or the prospect of it. It is like a shock therapy for jealous man. Though, if it won't help you will be obliged to divorce him or to suffer from his jealousy for the rest of your life. There is also another way to deal with jealousy. But if you will try this method you will undergo a great risk. Some men can be healed by replacing their fantasies about cheatings with the facts. Some people were cured with this method, though not all. And one should in no case apply this method herself.