Jealousy and friendship
People say that friendship is love without wings. So, in other words friendship is just the same with love but without romance. A friend is one who will always stay next to you no matter what happens and who will do his best if you will need help. It is hard to find a friend just like it is hard to find a person you will love for the rest of your life. Though, it is much harder to keep your friendship when you are grown up and have troubles you have to deal with every day. But it is rather important to have a friend who can share your pain with you and joy also.
Sure, the one you are in love with will always listen to you and help you. But, you may have troubles with this person and than you will need someone to talk about. And that someone will be your friend, who will listen to you and talk to and give you a good advice. There is only one thing that is able to poison your friendship and that thing is jealousy. It often happen that one have a friend and spent all his or her time with the friend. You spent the days and nights long talking to your friend and having fun, though it is not the eternal way of life. Soon the time comes when things are changed.
It often happens that one person meets someone it is more interesting to spent time with. This person don't consider such changes to be a tragedy or betray, but that is a point of view different from the one his or her friend has. A friend feels betrayed and abandoned, and that is where jealousy appears. Jealousy is a selfish feeling and so a number of troubles may be caused with this feeling. First of all the desire of revenge appears. Sure, we all want for those who hurt us realise our pain, though not all of us a ready to apply certain efforts for this purpose.
Jealousy feeling between friends is a beginning of the end of their friendship. If there is nothing will be done at time there will be nothing to be done later and so the friendship will be over. Mind the feelings of your friends and consider what you do in order not to hurt them. Otherwise you will never manage to save your friendship and you will undergo the risk to remain lonely for the rest of your life and there will be no one to support you. And believe me, there is no person in the world strong enough to live happily with the feeling of loneliness inside.
A friendship between man and woman is a stepping stone for everyone. People are strictly divided on those who believe in such friendship and those who don't. So, if a woman has a man as a friend she will face with a number of troubles and misunderstandings with one she is in love with. There are just a few men able to realise that it is just a friendship between them and nothing more. So, the jealousy of a partner may also be a reason for your friendship to be over. If you won't manage to explain your relations you will have to make your choice.