MDF – reason for cheating?
You may be surprised or even astonished with further statement but it is right. The main goal of the one who is jealousy is to prevent cheating, though the common result of his or her deeds aimed for this purpose result in ....cheating. The one who is jealous makes a person he or she is jealous for to cheat. It is an astonish news but it is true. There is a phrase "If one calls a person dog he will bark one day". This phrase expresses the point of jealousy. If one always blames another in cheating one day that someone will cheat.
The cheating will be common psychical response for permanent blaming. Say, there is a man who has wife and he is mad about prospect of her cheating. She does nothing wrong and the only things she cares about are her work and her family. Though, he is not able to realise it and he can't work and can't think about something except her cheating. One day that worry will be so great that it will be impossible to keep it inside. So, he will express it, he will blame her in cheating and lying. Sure, first she will laugh, than it won't seem so funny for her and later she will be anxious about it.
It hurts people to be blamed in things they don't' do and thing they were not going to do. It is impossible for a person to stay calm listening for permanent blames and hysterics. Firs a person tries to assure one that it is impossible for him or her to cheat the one he or she in love is. Than the attempts to assure are replaced with offences like "How can you say so?" and than things will get worth. And that "worth" will result in the thing the one who is jealous wanted to prevent.
The MDF (mass destructive feeling) is the main reason for people to cheat those they are in love with or they used to be in love with. It is hard for a person to realise why the love he or she trusts greatly can't trust her or him just as greatly. It is also hard for them to realise why they can't believe in the love and why it is easier for them to hurt those they are in love with than to realise that jealousy is based on imagination only. It is a feeling of despair that occupies hearts and minds of those who are blamed in all deadly things. And the frustrated person is on the razor-edge of the patience.
So, people are blamed on the things they have never done and were not doing to do. They are hurt, frustrated and in despair. They believe that they have a right to be revenged for all the sufferings they underwent. And there is no better way of the revenge they are able to make up than to bring to life things they were blamed in. There is no sorrow they will feel later as their consciousness says them that it is okay and there is nothing wrong in what they have don't. According to their consciousness they are revenged and it is a good thing but not the bad. Though, as a rule this revenge brings no relief and people realise that they have chosen the wrong way.