Psychologists say...
Psychologists say stop acting a holy martyrs and suffer from jealousy. No one has a right to torture you and make you unhappy. People were born to be happy and to enjoy their lives and so it is stupid to undergo needless sufferings. If you are in love with a person and that person suffers with pathological jealousy don't try to fix him or her as it is impossible. The psychologists are not able to do that so what make you think that you are? No matter what makes you think so you have to forget about that thing and the ideas it suggests for you.
You will never manage to help someone who doesn't need your help. Sometimes those who are jealous adore this feelings and there is no another way for them to feel happy. Theses people usually called as sadists. They are fond of sufferings of other people and there is no way for them to refuse this pleasure. There were a number of wives and husbands who greatly believed that they are able to do things no one was able before. But in some time all of them realized that they were extremely wrong, and that is the Sizif's work. They roll the stone up and it falls back.
That is how the things are and that is how the things will be the only possible way to deal with the problem of jealousy is...to get divorces with the one who is jealous. The divorce is like a shock therapy for people who are the pathological jealousers. Though, it may heal them for good or just for a couple of month or years. Though, in most cases such shock therapy changes things to better only for sometime and with the lapse of times things get back to "norm" again.
There are a number of people who get divorced because of jealousy. No matter how hard they tried, they never managed do change something and so the only way out they have found was the divorce. Fancy that a second marriage of those who were jealous appeared to be the happiest marriage and there is no problem of jealousy in this marriage. Moreover, the wives of the former jealousers were greatly surprised with the fact that their husband used to be an anxious jealouser. So, we may state that the only way to cure jealousy is to get divorce.
Though, just like any medicine this one has its side effects. The main side effect is that you will dispose the problem of jealousy though the healed person will never be the one you will spend your whole life with. You cure a person for he or she live happily with someone else but not with you. If you will renew your relations with a person thing will be just the same, nothing will change. It is a pity, but in case if a person you are in love with is the one who can't get rid of jealousy and suspicions the only thing you can do is to get divorced. Sure it is hard, but it is harder to be jealoused during the whole life. He or she will never trust you and with the lapse of time you will realize that there is no love anymore, the depression and fear only.